Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Surgery Date is Set - Roller Coaster Therapy!


I thought I would pass on an update. On Wednesday, July 15th I will have a very quick procedure called a lymphoscintigraphy. This procedure is performed before surgery and used to follow the flow of the lymph fluid to the lymph nodes. It will identify the first lymph node to get fluid, that node is called the sentinel node. The test helps assess the stage of cancer and treatment. AT LEAST - this is what I understand. I thought I would share with you, since this is all new information. It is an important test, one I want to come thru with an A+.

Thursday, July 16th will be my surgery day. It will start at 8:15am, although we will have to be at UCI at 6:15am to prepare. The surgery lasts about 4-5 hours and then I will stay in the hospital for 4-6 nights.

On the advise of a friend who had very extensive surgery at UCI 3 years ago, I met with a hypnotherapist, Marilyn. She has recorded three CDs for me. One I will listen to prior surgery, one just before and one post. These CDs are to help keep me calm, focused on success and recovery. She has helped many patients with surgery, so I am glad to have this as part of my overall plan.

Mike will be on duty the week of surgery and days immediately after, and then the Devney Visiting Nurse Team will take turns babysitting. I have pushed Mike and the girls to at least join in with his family reunion for the second part at Lake Okoboji, and he reluctantly agreed. I know that by the time I get home, I will probably welcome the quiet and comforts of home - plus Miss Kitty will be here as my 24 hour care giver. Isn't she just adorable?!?

Yesterday we did a family (minus Amanda) day at Knotts Berry Farm - I really never thought I could do so many roller coasters and actually enjoy them. I keep thinking, if I can go thru this surgery, then I can at least do this roller coaster for 30 seconds! We had a ball, and as Monica and Elyse said - we did not get sick of each other in the 12 hours together. :) The girls are all three so very dear, you can not even imagine.

I am in Arizona tonight with my mother Ruth, Brigid, Dan and my niece, Summer - they come for dinner here at the house in about 30 minutes! I can not wait to see them. (picture above just added from the BBQ tonight) We will do a lot of wedding talk!

All is well. Moving forward. Thank you all for the emails, calls and comments on the blog which get emailed to me as soon as you post them. If you signed up to get the email notifications about new blog posts make sure you check your inbox and confirm your request.

Lots of love. xoxoxokd

10 comments:

Kate Good said...

Hello Sunshine!

Thanks for the update. My thoughts and prayers are with you next week and during your recovery. Sounds like God has placed you on the wings of angels so you will be safe and know you are loved.

With Love and Support, Kate (Good)

Anonymous said...

Katie honey,

I am constantly amazed at your attitude and strength.
I love you and think of you constantly during this process. You are so loved and I know you will be the poster child for "how to come through Breast cancer with flying colors!"

Love you always!
Kris

Unknown said...

Dear Katie~
I'm glad to hear that the plans are in place and I love the fact you have special cds to help you relax and focus on everything positive.
You've got what it takes Katie to face this head on and beat it! No puking on the roller coasters???... then you are good to go!!!
It's soon "wheels up" for you Katie and it will be a PERFECT landing. No doubt in my mind.
Is there a mailing address for the hospital that you have for all of us? Will you be able to receive flowers?...just want to make sure you can have them in your room?
much love,
Gwynne

Anonymous said...

I love you Katie!! I am praying really hard (and asking for help from all those angels we have). The blog is awesome- though I don't think Miss Kitty will be too pleased when I show her the picture you put up of her. XOm

Anonymous said...

Oh! XO Megan!! And I am eager to be your nurse and get part behind and onto happier moments. You really will win this fight.

Unknown said...

Hi Katie~ Sounds like you have a focused and peaceful out look on the week to come! Our Lord holds you dear to HIS heart and will be "with you" each and every step of the way!! Enjoy this weekend with your family and please give them my love, Patti Anderson Green

Rachel said...

Hi Katie,
Just wanted to wish you good luck with the surgery tomorrow. You are such a tough lady, so I have no doubt that everything will go smoothly. You are in the thoughts and prayers of the Fleming Family.

-Rachel

Becky said...

Hi Katie,
Sending our love to you as you begin your healing journey. You have such an amazing spirit and loving heart that you always wear for all to share. Know that we are thinking of you and remembering you in our prayers. Feel our hugs around you. (please let me know if I can help as I will be in ca til august) Luv Becky and Kevin

Chuck Cornish said...

Katie,

It was great seeing you and Mike last weekend. I know your positive mental attitude will ensure your fast recovery. My prayers are with you.

Chuck

Unknown said...

Hi Katie,
Wanted to say hello and let you know that I'm thinking about you and will be praying for a speedy recovery! Good luck tomorrow!
Love,
Jancy