Monday, June 22, 2009

Katie Breaks the News

Dear friends and family,

I am sending out a group email which I know may seem very impersonal, but I want each of you to directly hear from me this news.

Last week on Friday, June 19th, I was told that I have breast cancer. The cancer is in my right breast and is a .6cm tumor with 7cm of invasive cancer. I went in for a mammogram and they discovered the tumor, which was followed by ultrasound biopsy, resulting in the final diagnosis on Friday. The incredible part of the story, I was at Hoag Hospital in Newport, CA where there is a wonderful 'Breast Pavilion'. So, not only did I hear my news from the biopsy on Friday, but after 6 hours I went home having had an MRI done and having met with an incredible surgeon, Dr. Melvin Silverstein, who is the director of the Hoag Breast Center and has 30 years of experience along with having written text books on this subject.

In addition, I have an appointment on Wednesday morning with the head of the UCI Breast Center, Dr. John Butler. I will then make a decision between these two doctors, along with determining the plastic surgeon. The diagnosis is that I have stage 1, but because the cancer has metastasized to 7cm, I will have to have a mastectomy, along with immediate reconstructive surgery. While I am in surgery, the doctor will shoot blue dye into my gland which will perhaps travel to lymph nodes and then those nodes will be removed and biopsied.

I know you are probably hearing this for the first time, and could be in shock, sad, angry, confused etc. I know that I felt all of these feelings on Friday. BUT, I also left with huge hope, a game plan, and lots of support. I am not scared. The plan is to have the surgery performed in the next few weeks. We will not know until after surgery if I will need further treatment or what treatment.

Mike has been awesome, helpful and loving; as has my family and the girls. Mike will be helping me start a blog to keep you informed if you are interested. I guess my lesson is the importance of annual mammograms along with self-exam.....but don't worry I won't turn crazy on you and get on a soap box and preach. :)

What do I need?.....just a positive and happy outlook from my friends and family which is exactly what you will see from me. I love you all and thank you for your prayers for good health and quick healing.

xoxoxokd - Katie

8 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh Miss Katie!!!! You are such a special girl! As shocked and saddened as I am feeling right now - I have to smile knowing that with your disposition and personality that you won't let this get you down! I will be praying for you and I CAN'T WAIT to watch you walk down the aisle in your white dress!! All My Love, Vicki

Unknown said...

Katie!
I love the fact that we can keep in touch with you along this journey of yours. You are without a doubt in good hands! I think its a nice bonus that your doctors are nice looking too! I hope every nurse you have is a "chippendales" dancer by night....making your recovery even that much easier!
So excited to hear you found your wedding gown which is the so much fun to shop for! I KNOW it must be gorgeous on you!
You are in our thoughts and prayers and yes this blogging will help pass the time and bring you some comfort, encouragement and humor too.
You are loved by everyone that knows you!
xoxo, gwynne

Devon said...

Hi Katie,

So sorry you are having to go through this. I know all will be fine, but it still stinks. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Let us know if you would like to rest and relax in the mountains. Our home is so quiet :) and you and Mike are always welcome.

Hugs, Devon

Unknown said...

Dearest Katie, you are an amazing woman in every way. I love your attitude and proactive approach to this scary situation and have no doubt we will be celebrating your clean bill of health soon. Lots of celebrations! So, you picked a wedding date? And already found a dress? Wow, girl, you move fast. Last time I saw you, you were in shock that there was a ring on your finger! I see you are approaching everything with gusto and I’m not surprised. I’ll be following your journey and sending positive thoughts and prayers your way every day. Love to you and Mike, XO Lisanne

Jennine LoCastro said...

Hi Kaitie,
This comes to you with much love and support from New York. Your such an inspiration to us all in how your are dealing with this. Your posiive attitude will get you all the way through and very soon you will be walking down the asile to Mike in no time. So glad you both decided to get hitched. What a wonderful tribute of your love and devotion to each other all of these years. You look so beautiful and fit in your try on wedding gown. Gee, you just get better with age like fine wine. So nice to see your face as it put a smile on mine. Will be with you all the way!
Love, Jennine

Unknown said...

Hi Kate! That photo is just a glimpse of what a "beautiful" bride you are going to be!!!! As you know all my love and Power of Positive thinking is being sent your way each and every day! What an amazing woman you are and have always been since you crashed on your bike in 4th grade!!! Ha! Ha! :) xoxo, Patti

Anonymous said...

Katie D! You have always been one of the absolute people I have ever known! Asolutly positive, absolutly uplifting and absolutly meaningful to al who have come to know you! Only "YOU" would think of such a grand and cleaver way to celebrate life and what it brings us. Health, Wealth and Freedom come best from inside. You are an expression of what others hope to be in these areas.

You have my prayers, hope in christ as god touches your life. Bring you quick healing and a speedy recovery.

Love, Hugs and Kisses!
Glenn

Anonymous said...

Mike and Katie!
Thank you so very much for the detailed update on Katie's surgery day. The entire family has been in our thoughts and prayers and to hear such encouraging updates was a relief! We are anticipating hearing more good news next week!
Much love,
The Wang